Family is the closest relationship a person has, and if that is disturbed, a friend can be very helpful. In my case, usually frieds are sometimes ranked higher than family.the only family i have, are my mother and my father, whom i really love.but i dont talk to them too much, thats because they would shit their pants if they would know the things i do, things that bother me, or things i would love to talk about. thats where friends come in the picture. i thought, at some point, that i`m ok when it comes to friends.I have a lot of them, and i`m glad.but i was wrong. and now, i have just a few...like..i can count them on one hand.But they are all i need. The main ideea about friends, it that you can tell them anything, and they dont judge.they give advices, but that has nothing to do with judging.
now back to where i started.
Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love. There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had.A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of good time together,that is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship.
Some need friends to go out with, some need friends to be popular, some need friends to get drunk with, some need friends `couse they feel lonely.Loneliness is felt by everyone. But, in my opinion, if one feels lonely, and needs to have people around...if that person just has random people around, that wont take away that feeling...the important thing about friends is that you must feel free to tell anything to that/those person(s) and you`ll find understanding, and not judgment. i may be repeating myself...but thats no1 on my list.
so, in my case too, friends are all i have at the moment.and its a refreshing thought to know that...
the first song that comes to my mind, regarding the topic of this post, is this one(and this version in particular) :
and another one:
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